(Digital art Courtesy: Hiral Varun)
Firat Brhmasthanam temple at Kodungallur. Brahmasthanam temple is of unique design conceived and consecrated by Amma. It contains a 4-faced murti (Shiva, Ganesha, Devi and Rahu (Murugan) on each side.
(L) Paripally Orphanage those days (R) Brhmacharinis conducting prayer with orphan children.
Mata Amritanandamayi Center (MA Center) at San Ramon, USA.
Swami Dhruvananda of Sri Ramakrishna Tapovanam with Amma in the preparation for Vraja Homa. (He is now a resident of Amritapuri Ashram since 2018)
Amma gives Sanyasa to Br. Balu – Swami Amritaswarupanandapuri.
Front elevation of Amritapuri Ashram Kali temple. It took almost 5 years to complete the construction. The upper floors have residential quarters and rooms for other ashram activities. The presiding deity is Bhavatarini Kali (some what similar to Bhavatarini Kali of Dakshineswar Kali temple)
Kali Sannidhi and meditation Hall of the Amritapuri Kali temple.
Huts for Brahmacharis – behind current Kali Temple (in the current big hall area).
Entrance to the A-Block of AIMS – Amrita Institute of Medical Sciences, Edappally, Eranakulam.
Amrita Kripa Hospice, Mumbai
Swami Amritatmananda Puri Swami Ramakrishnananda Puri
Swami Purnanamritananda Puri Swami Pranavamritananda Puri
Swami Amritagitananda Puri Swamini Atma Prana
Damayanti Amma.
The blessed biological mother of the Divine Mother Mata Amritanangamayi Devi gave up her mortal body and merged in Amma on 19th September 2022, at the ripe old age of 97.
In the holy life history of Amma, the role played by Damayanti Amma is quite significant indeed, particularly during the formative years of Amma. Damayanti Amma was a very strict mother and a bundle of values. Amma in fact used to mention that her mother was a guru for her who taught by example, as well as through her strict regimen. Amma frequently used to share many of her childhood anecdotes to explain them.
Damayanti Amma was very particular to instill several values to her like loving and worshiping nature as God, protecting and preserving nature, the importance of hard work, loving and serving others, giving first priority to others’ needs, intolerance towards wasting anything, frugal living, worshiping everything as a form of God, lovingly feeding guests and strangers, concern and care for others in the society etc.
Damayanti Amma’s native place is Bandarathuruth which is about 6 km away from Parayakadavu (the native place of Amma’s father Sugunanandan). 20 year old Damayanti got married to 21 year old Sugunanandan and arrived at Idamannel house to raise her family.
Damayanti Amma was very devoted to God right from her childhood. She used to follow strict austerities including abstaining from taking food a couple of days in a week. Interestingly, there were incidents where, on such ‘upavas’ days, tender coconuts would fall on their own by evening from the coconut tree, and Damayanti Amma would finish her ‘vrata’ by drinking the coconut water.
Since she was quite adept in following strict austerities, she was fondly called ‘Pattathi Amma’ (Brahmin lady) by the neighbors.
The first (girl) child born to the Damayanti-Sugunanandan couple was Kasturi. They had a boy next, named Subhakan. The third child unfortunately died on delivery.
In the forth delivery, Damayanti Amma was blessed to give birth to the avatar of the Universal Divine mother, Amma, who was given the name of Mata Amritanandamayi Devi by her devotees. The name given to the girl child by the parents was Sudhamani.
When Damayanti Amma was bearing Amma in her womb, she had indeed received several ‘hints’ about the arrival of an extraordinary person through her. Lord Shiva, Devi and Krishna appeared In her dreams She also had a dream where someone comes and gives a golden image of young Krishna. Sugunanandan too had dreams in which Devi appeared. Though the naïve couple shared their experiences with each other, they were not really equipped to understand the significance of the dreams, until very much later in life.
A few days before the delivery, Damayanti Amma had yet another dream in which she experienced giving birth to Lord Krishna and the little Krishna drinking her breast milk.
Sugunanandan owned a small hut closer to the seashore in addition to his house Idnamannel. As per the local norms, Damayanti Amma normally went to her mother’s house for the delivery, some days before the expected due date. But, this time, during the final month of pregnancy, Damayanti Amma very unexpectedly felt the symptoms of an imminent delivery. She had no one with her to assist in delivery, and it happened rather quickly at the hut.
The new-born child did not cry. Damayanti Amma got worried whether this delivery too ended in a stillbirth. As she worriedly looked at the new born baby, the baby looked at her and smiled! It was indeed a pleasant and very unusual surprise for Damayanti Amma. By that time, a neighboring woman came rushing, to extend help to Damayanti Amma.
Thus Damayanti Amma gave birth to the Universal divine mother on 27th September 1953, Sunday, at 9 AM in the star Karthika.
But it was indeed a serious concern that the newborn baby did not cry for a while. Added to the woes, the baby was bluish black in color. Its fingers showed some symbol (known as chin-mudra) and legs were found folded in Padmasana. Fortunately, the baby started crying after a while and it brought some relief to the mother and the family. Soon the baby was named Sudhamani.
Only after the passage of one year, Sudhamani’s skin color changed from bluish black to dark. Sudhamani did not crawl at the normal time of seven months, but sooner, she got up and walked and without much delay, she started to run too. However, she started to talk from 6 month onwards. From the age of two, she started chanting and singing Lord Krishna’s name; at the age of four, she started to compose and sing a couple of lines bearing Lord Krishna’s names. Sudhamani was short in size and she was fondly called ‘kunju’ by one and all.
This dark-skinned little girl was very obviously different from any other child in the locality; but, unfortunately, for the fair-skinned Damayanti Amma and her two elder children, Sudhamani unusually dark skin remained a matter of overt and covert dislike, and it did show in their treatment towards the child. Of course they were ordinary village folks who had their own biases, and it was natural.
Sudhamani went to local primary school and studied up to fourth standard. Damayanti Amma had a series of childbirths. After Sudhamani, she gave birth to Sugunamma, Sajini, Sureshkumar, Satheeshkumar and Sudhirkumar. Damayanti Amma also had some three stillbirths in between these children.
The series of child births and deliveries did have their impact on Damayanti Amma’s health. She became very weak both physically and mentally. The family was quite big and the household chores were physically taxing and never ending. She had to take care of the cattle too. Poor lady, with a frail body and deteriorating health, how would she manage? The family machine had to squeak and run somehow, and she opted to pull in the dark and puny Sudhamani into doing household work very rigorously, right from a very young age, giving minimum priority to her education.
However, little Sudhamani was very intelligent, had a sharp intellect and wonderful memory capacity. Despite heavy household work, she managed to do her studies very well. As we know, she had a deep love on Lord Krishna right from very young age; amid her household work and study at schools, she did find time to chant Lord Krishna’s name and sing his glories with tearfilled eyes. Many times, her focus would turn inwards; losing external consciousness, she would sit still in samadhi like a statue.
Unfortunately, none in the locality knew what spirituality was, what it meant to be in deep devotion to God and what was meditation. Naturally, Damayanti Amma could not understand her dark little daughter’s quirky behavior; at the best, she could only conclude that Sudhamani had some mental problems; it would be prudent and economical to put an end to her education and utilize her full time in doing domestic chores. In fact, it suited Sudhamani’s school-going siblings very well, as they could unburden all their share of work on the head of the dark skinned and cranky Sudhamani! Thus Damayanti Amma stopped Sudhamani from going to school midway during her 5th standard.
Sudhamani had to get up early in the morning at 3 AM to start her domestic chores. If she was found sleeping late, Damayanti Amma would pour a pot of water over her. Sudhamani had to sweep the house and surroundings, bring firewood, cut vegetables, start cooking, wash utensils, wash clothes, cut and bring grass from nearby backwaters, bring drinking water from the common village tap, feed the cows, clean the cowshed and so on. Her chores would continue never-ending till 11 PM.
It was during this period that Damayanti Amma played the role of an extremely tough and demanding guru to teach many things related to doing the domestic work in the most appropriate way. She taught dos and don’ts of right behavior and practices. Amma used to recall many such teachings of Damayanti Amma, in later years during her interaction with her devotees.
Stress on hard work
If, at any point of time, Sudhamani displayed any lack of interest or sluggishness in doing work, Damayanti Amma would say, “If you feel lazy to do work, God will stop giving any work to you. Unless one works, one would not get food to eat. If you don’t get work, then you will die of hunger. Hence, we should always pray, ‘God, please give me work always’. All people indeed pray that way”.
Guilelessly, Sudhamani believed what her mother told and she would indeed pray, “O Krishna, please always give me your work”. Perhaps it is out of this prayer that Amma, till date, is getting loads and loads of work and is serving the society without any rest! In a way, aren’t we, the beneficiaries of Amma’s tireless work, indebted to Damayanti Amma?
Awareness and attention about even little things
Damayanti Amma had keen awareness about so many things. If Amma spilled a few grains while cleaning the rice, Dhamayantiamma would say “Are you capable of creating one rice grain yourself? Then how can you carelessly waste it?”. Even a match stick should not be wasted unnecessarily. If Amma had to light up fire, she had to go approach a neighbor and if they had got fire at their kitchen or at their wick lamp, fire should be obtained from there.
Damayanti Amma demanded perfection even in mundane work like sweeping the front yard. The sweeping must be impeccable, not leaving a dry leaf here or a pebble of stone there. The swept marks of the broomstick should create a visibly pleasing pattern on the ground.
Brooms were normally made at home by bundling the light and thin sticks of coconut leaves. While brooming, it was natural that some of these thin sticks would get loosened and fall to the ground. If Damayanti Amma noticed any sticks fallen like this, she would beat Amma, saying, “If you lose one stick a day like this, then in one or two months, it would amount to losing a whole broom. That is utter carelessness”
While grinding ‘masala’ in the grinding stone, Amma would loudly chit chat. That was not acceptable. “When you chit chat, there is a chance that your spittle may drop on the preparation and it is very unhygienic”. So sying, Dhamayantiamma would give a beating or two, if Sudhamani does not keep her mouth shut.
Seeing God in everything
For Damayanti Amma, a piece of paper is an aspect of the Goddess of Learning, Saraswathi. If someone puts a foot over it, it amounts to showing disrespect to Goddess Saraswathi. Dhamayanti Amma would insist on picking the paper, touching it on the head and showing respect to it.
God’s aspect indwells in every object, and whenever you use something you should have a worshipful attitude towards it — this is what Damayanti Amma taught Sudhamani. Even today, we can see Amma touching her chair and then touching her forehead as a mark of respect before sitting in it; Amma would touch the microphone when ending her bhajans as a mark of respect to it. Such habits got ingrained in Amma’s psyche, thanks to Damayanti Amma’s strictures.
Damaynti Amma would say, “Rivers are like Devi. One should not urinate in them”. Though there were no rivers in Amma’s locality, the backwaters were literally the rivers for Amma. When Amma got into the backwater for bathing, the sudden chillness would invariably trigger an urge to urinate. But, she would remember Damayanti Amma’s words, and instantly, as if putting a switch off, Amma would control the urge to urinate. Amma used to mention this umpteen times during her satsangs.
Serving guests – ‘Atiti devo bhava’
Dhamayantiamma truly treated guests as Gods. She would unhesitatingly sacrifice her food to feed a guest. It is her practice to set aside a portion of food, to feed guests who may drop in unannounced. After cooking, she would not immediately serve food to her children. She would wait to see if any guests would come and only later she would feed her children. There were also occasions when cooked Kanji would turn out to be insufficient for the family after feeding the guests. On such occasions, Damayanti Amma would mix scraped coconut with remnant rice water (Kanji Vellam) and give it to Sudhamani, who was yet to eat.
If guests come home with a shortage of clothes, she would give away her new clothes to the guest. In the limited space inside their house, guests would always get priority to lie inside the house, and Dhamayantiamma and other family members would opt to sleep in the courtyard.
A beggar coming hungry knocking at her doors would never be turned away.
During Sabarimala seasons, pilgrims from adjacent places who go by foot to Sabarimala would pass by. Damayanti Amma would make sure to serve them Kanji and curry.
Caring for others needs
Being a fishermens’ hamlet, most men of the locality earned their living by fishing in the sea. Many families lived a hand-to-mouth existence, based on day to day earnings to run the family. At times, it would get very late for the men to return from the sea after their daily catch. They had to sell the fish, get cash, buy groceries for the day’s food and come home. Cooking would commence only after that.
There were families with ten to twelve members in a house including children and old people in the neighborhood. They would be waiting hungrily right through the day, till the head of the family arrived. On days like this, Damayanti Amma would cook some extra food, good enough to eat for four to five children. She would send the food through Sudhamani to the neighbors house saying, “Poor people; they have been fasting right through the day. Let them not not go without food.”
The sense of togetherness with neighbors that Dhamayantiamma displayed too was so striking. As we have seen earlier, Damayanti Amma used to send Sudhamani to bring fire from the neighbor’s house, to avoid wasting a match stick. She would instruct Amma that if the house she visited was untidy, she should sweep that house; if utensils were there uncleaned, she should clean them before coming back home with the fire.
Preserving Nature – Never take anything in excess from nature
Once a pilgrim to Sabarimala had arrived, and Damayanti Amma served him Kanji. It was the practice in the village to use a folded leaf of a Jackfruit tree as a spoon for consuming the kanji. Damayanti Amma asked Sudhamani to fetch a jackfruit leaf for the purpose. When Amma went near the jackfruit tree, she saw a small branch of the tree had broken and fallen on the ground. It had some sixty leaves in it. Sudhamani picked up the branch and brought it to Damayanti Amma.
On seeing it, Damatyanti Amma started beating Sudhamani immediately. After a while she said, “I told you to bring just one leaf. Who asked you to break a branch and waste so many leaves? What right do you have to do such an injustice to the tree?”
Only when Amma explained that the branch had already broken, Dhamayanti Amma stopped beating her.
Quoting this incident, Amma said in later years, “From this experience, I learned three things. First, we should allow all plants and trees to live their full life as ordained by God, two, as the leaves purify the air we breathe, they are extremely important to us and three, taking anything more than our essential need from nature is adharma”.
Motherly instincts
Having given birth to eight children and rearing them up, Damayanti Amma had motherly instincts ingrained in her psyche. To explain this, Amma used to quote the following incident.
Once, Damayanthi Amma and Sudhamani were engaged in some chores near the sea shore. Suddenly Damayanti Amma’s blouse became wet due to oozing of milk from her breasts. Damayanti Amma said to Sudhamani, “I think the baby sleeping in the hammock inside the house has woken up and is crying; go and bring the baby immediately”. Amma rushed to the house and indeed she found her baby sibling writhing and crying in the hammock.
Right from the age of ten, till her reaching twenty, Amma was fully engaged in the ceaseless domestic works for ten years. On one side, she had abundant energy to do all of them like child’s play and on the other side, she lost her sleep at night, as that was the time she could be back in communion with her beloved Lord Krishna. She would call out Krishna, sing bhajans, cry out for getting his darshan profusely shedding tears and dance in ecstasy.
Discipling the ‘thief’
In the daytime, Sudhamayi used to go to other houses in the village to collect discarded vegetable skins to feed their cow. She saw firsthand how people were suffering from hunger and poverty. She saw old people suffering from sickness and discard from other family members. Amma’s heart would melt seeing their plight. She would steal money, food, groceries, and, at rare times, even golden ornaments from her house and give to the suffering people in the surroundings.
While Damayanti Amma too had a soft heart for the suffering people and extended help to them, it was always within the means and limitations of her large family. On the other hand, Amma’s acts were sheer largesse, totally unmindful of the family’s financial status. From the point of view of the highly principled Damayanti Amma, stealing money and goods from the family (irrespective of the motive) amounted to having criminal tendencies; It amounted to utter lack of good conduct and character, which deserved severe punishment. Hence, whenever Sudhamani’s largesses got exposed, she received severe beatings from Damayanti Amma.
Damayanti Amma would also complain to Sugunanandan about the adamant daughter’s excesses and Sudhamani would get further punishment from her father too.
Once, when Amma was six years old, Damayanti Amma was complaining to her husband about Sudhamani’s misbehavior. Little Sudhamani lost patience and shouted at her mother, “Are you my mother or mother-in-law?” No wonder the parents were shocked to hear Sudhamani’s outburst.
Damayanti Amma’s predicament
People reading Amma’s life history may tend to form a mental picture of Damayanti Amma as a heartless and spiteful woman. But the reality must be understood without bias, considering the time period and the location of these incidents.
Parayakadavu village and the surroundings were hamlets of fishermen and their community had its own social norms of behavior and cultural moorings. It was quite a male dominated society, and the girls were subject to severe strictures and restrictions, primarily aimed to ensure their safety and good name.
Girls were meant to be married off as early as possible and they should have modesty, sound character, be soft spoken, be feminine, be excellent in domestic chores and so on.
Girls should not talk aloud nor laugh noisily. They should show respect to all menfolk irrespective of whether they were older or younger. A young girl should not sit in front of even her younger brother, if he was standing. Girls should not speak to strangers. Whether on work or study, girls should return home before dusk. Sweeping the floor in front of men was considered an act of disrespect. When a woman sweeps the floor and a man happens to come by, she should stop sweeping and hide the broomstick behind her back!
Dhamayanti Amma was very particular that her daughters should never get any bad name. Otherwise, parents would get the blame for not rearing their girls with proper cultural mooring.
The Tomboyish ‘Little Kali’
But Amma was made of sterner stuff! She was tomboyish in many ways. The ‘little Kali’ many times tended to be rebellious to her mother’s strictures. If Dhamayanti Amma says “You should not do it”, Amma will say “I will”. If Dhamayanti Amma shouted at her, Amma would shout back louder than her! If Dhamayanti Amma came to beat her, Amma would grip her hands and try to thwart her from hitting her! All these would naturally bring Dhamyanthiamma to boiling point and instead of getting one beating, Amma would end up getting 10 beatings!
Amma also displayed the tendencies of ‘little Krishna’. When hungry, Amma would gulp down curd and milk, and to avoid getting noticed, she would generously add water.
Amma used to say in later years, “If Amma had received so much of beatings those days, it was more due to Amma’s adamant behavior at young age.”
In her young age, brimming with energy, Amma would not differentiate a work which was normally considered to be in the domain of men.
Guests would keep on coming to Dhamayantiamma’s home at all odd hours and whoever came had to be served with tea. That was the strict rule of hospitality of Dhamayanti Amma. Firewood would be constantly needed. If nothing was immediately available, Sudhamani would not hesitate to climb a coconut tree nearby to pull out a dry branch hanging there! If Damayanti Amma noticed it, she would boil with rage. “Come down and I will treat you the right way”, so saying, she would be ready, with a stick in hand.
“If you are going to beat me, I will stay here permanently, and will not get down!” — Amma would shout back.
Exasperated, Damayanti Amma would quip, “If your behavior is going to be like this, I will marry you off only to a tree-climber!’
There was also an occasion, when, perhaps Damayanti Amma would have wondered whether a boatman was the right match for her incurably adamant daughter! This incident happened when Amma was fourteen years old.
One day, Amma was returning from Vallikkavu and came to the backwaters to take a rowing boat (‘kadathu vallam’) to reach home. (There was no bridge those days and boats were the only mode of transport). Boatmen had retired for lunch time.Some elderly women and children were waiting for the boatman for a long time. One woman was lamenting that her children were hungry at home; she had just bought the provisions and she could cook only after returning home. If the wait were to be longer, the children would have to suffer in hunger. She was feeling restless.
Amma could not tolerate the woman’s mental anguish. She decided to row the boat herself, even though she had no experience in rowing the large Kadathu Vallam;. The bamboo stick was too heavy and too tall for her small stature! It was indeed a tough man’s job! But undaunted, Amma started pushing the boat using the stick, keeping the women seated in it. Soon the boat was swaying this way and that way dangerously, but still started progressing towards the opposite shore!
Seeing what young Sudhamani was doing, people started gathering at both the shores wondering as to what would happen. Will she end up capsizing the boat and sinking all into the backwaters? Or will she manage to reach the opposite shore? Dhamayanthiamma too rushed to the banks of the backwaters hearing the commotion going around!
Sudhamani somehow successfully managed to cross the backwaters and reach the bank! There was excitement all around, but Dhamayantiamma was totally nonplussed! Oh, what a shame this Sudhamani had brought to the family! Doing things that only males were supposed to do! If she was so rough and tough, who would ever come forward to marry her?! Moreover, if she had ended up in capsizing the boat midway, what a calamity would have befallen! Needless to mention that Amma got her choicest beatings from her mother that day!
But Amma was least bothered about the beatings she received that day; she was quite happy to have helped the women to reach home and feed her hungry children.
The joy of one-day freedom
During many of the Onam festivals in the ashram, Amma invariably would bare her childhood memories associated with Onam.
“Onam is one festival that I enjoyed thoroughly during my childhood. Girl children, who were normally subjected to so many restrictions, would get a one-day freedom on Onam. In addition, we got a new dress only during Onam and there will be plenty of payasam (sweet pudding) to drink. I would freak out into the streets shouting and laughing at the top of my voice. I would run around madly around the village, play day long with friends, sway in the swings for hours together, and return home only at dusk, dead tired! “
That was one day when I was totally free from the clutches and strictures of Damayanti Amma.
However, it did not mean that Amma would meekly submit herself to Damayanti Amma’s commands and demands on other days. She would argue word for word and whip up her mother’s anger more and more.
Any other normal girl, out of inability to tolerate the pain of beatings, would have cried out and sought pardon for her mischiefs and promised not to repeat her mistakes. But the little Kali would many times remain like a statue, without reacting to the bodily suffering received from the beating. This again had the potential to infuriarate Damayanti Amma further.
Task of managing the tempest
Poor Damayanti Amma! What could she do? She or her husband could never comprehend the unusually stubborn demeanor of their dark skinned daughter. They had to get their married one after the other. Who would come forward to offer their sons for marriage to their family? That was the prime concern that eroded the heart of Damayanti Amma like acid. The only way she knew was to discipline her adamant daughter through severe punishments.
Perhaps, had Amma’s lilas been constrained to the family only, she could have at least attempted to hush them up. Unfortunately, they were enacted at relatives’ houses too.
In those days, it was very difficult to get house maids on pay to do the domestic chores, since job opportunities for girls with better salary were available in coir making, fishnet repairing etc.
Hence, girls who had discontinued schooling and got trained in doing domestic work were much sought after. Damayanti Amma was getting pressure from her parents and other blood relatives to relieve Sudhamani for a few hours daily and send her to their houses for doing their hosehold chores. Damayanti Amma, had to oblige to their requests.
Sudhamani was sent to her grand-mother’s house at Pandarathurth. Every day, she had to walk 6 km for this purpose and Sudhamani utilized it for chanting her beloved Krishna’s name and immersing herself in the joy of it.
During her stints at her grandma’s house, and subsequently, at the age of 14 at her Mother’s elder sister’s house and later, at the age of 15 at her uncle’s house at Karunagapally, Sudhamani continued with her old ways. She took pity on the poor people around. She started helping them by supplying rice and other provisions stealthily from her hosts’ houses. She got caught and received punishments there too. Thus, after earning bad name from those relatives’ houses too, Sudhamani returned home permanently at the age of sixteen.
At that time, Damayanti Amma’s health deteriorated further and Sudhamani had to take the full brunt of all the household work at her head. Along with it, her mad devotion to lord Krishna too grew proportionately. Her obstinance and fights with Damayanti Amma too grew and consequently the punishments as well. Amma added fuel fire to her parents’ irritation through her habit of calling other elders in the surroundings as ‘father’ and ‘mother’ while calling her own parents as step-mother and step-father!
Damayanthi Amma’s repeated efforts to get Sudhamani married off ended up as failures again and again.
Time passed by. Amma’s first Krishna bhava darshan happened and it started continuing. Her reputation as a woman ‘possessed by Lord Krishna’ spread in the neighborhood villages and people started coming to have her darshan and seek solutions to their problems in life.
Subsequently, Amma received a glimpse of Devi Parashakti’s captivating form and she was then caught in a mad whirlwind of deep longing to have her Devi’s darshan again. Amma came out of her house once for all and lived in the open, losing external consciousness most of the time. With her exit, her utility as a full time domestic servant of Idamannel house came to an end.
Damayanti Amma and Sugunanandan were driven by conflicting emotions in their love-hate relationship with Amma. At times, they were awed by the divinity displayed by Amma; at times they felt it was all just lunatic. Parental love overpowered them to protect and nurture their daughter. But the opposition Amma faced from a huge group of rationalists, in addition to the strong opposition of Amma’s activities by their own son Subhagan dismayed and troubled them.
With Amma receiving Devi’s darshan finally and getting the experience of Devi merging in Her, Amma’s cyclonic and maddening sadhana period came to an end. Amma started giving Devi bhava darshan too. Her divinity was getting accepted more and more by the people living near and far. Lots of devotees thronged to her and have her Krishna bhava and Devi bhava darshans.
Yet, Amma’s parents faced problems both socially and financially in getting their other daughters married. Subhagan’s untimely death by committing suicide also shook them emotionally. Adding fuel to the fire, educated and young men from the surrounding towns were deeply drawn towards Ammas’ divinity and they started to frequent Amma and even wished to stay with her in her divine company for the sake of their spiritual progress. So many times, Damayanti Amma and Sugunanandan really wished that her daughter were ‘normal’ like any other village girl in the village.
The end of storm
However, as time passed, all the oppositions and negativities subsided. Slowly and steadily, Amma’s parents started to fully grasp Amma’s divine disposition, and it finally dawned to them how fortunate they were to give birth to the Universal Mother. They started actively involving themselves in supporting Amma fully in the evolution of the Ashram and taking loving care of Amma’s new children who came from far and wide and opted to live with her in quest of spirituality.
Husband and wife relationship
Apart from recalling Damayanti Amma’s ways in teaching her fundamental values and disciplines, Amma also used to talk highly of the loving bond that existed between Damayanti Amma and Sugunanandan. Of course, like any other married couple, Damayanti Amma too had her bickering with husband, but they were never too serious to disturb the deep marital bond.
Amma used to mention the following incident that happened in recent years — maybe some 15 / 20 years ago when Damayanti Amma and Sugunanandan were aged.
One night, Damayanti Amma left her house, came to Amma’s room and knocked at the doors. When Amma inquired what happened, Damayanti Amma said, “Your Achan an I had a serious fight. There is no point in living with him any more. Please let me stay with you here”, Amma smiled and instructed her assistant Lakshmi to make necessary arrangements for Damayanti Amma to sleep there.
Next day, before dawn, Amma was busy reading letters received by her from devotees. Damayanti Amma woke up, came to Amma and said, “I am going. Your achan would feel restless if he does not get his morning tea. Let me go and prepare tea for him”.
Amma had a hearty laugh.
Whenever Amma talks of the present day couples who fight with each other on petty matters and go to the extent of seeking divorce, Amma would quote the above incident to cite what type of marital bond existed between the couples of older generation.
Across years, Damyanti Amma and Sugunanandan watched how their daughter’s name and fame spread across the world; they proudly witnessed the amazing growth of Amma’s ashram and the multitude of Amma’s philanthropic institutions across the globe.
Sugunanandan passed away in 2010 at the age of 84. Damayanti Amma continued to live under Amma’s shade for the next 12 years. She had physical ailments to cope with and she was mostly indrawn, having least communication with the external world.
Finally she left her frail body and merged in Amma at 97.
Thiruvannamalai is a reasonably big town. There are plenty of hotels to suit various budgets. If you want to stay in some Ashrams (like Ramanasramam, Yogi Ramsurath Kumar Ashram, Seshadri swamigal ashram etc) you have to make advance inquiries. Search and get details from the respective websites. Ramanasramam normally puts the condition that those who intend to stay there should be devotees of Ramana Maharshi.
Food is generally good in most Tamil Nadu towns, but they will be predominantly south Indian. If you look for north Indian food, do Google search and locate appropriate hotels to stay.
For going to Annamalayar Temple or for ‘girivalam’ (Giri Pradakshina), modest Indian dress code is desirable. For men the dress code is Shirt & full trouser, Dhoti or Pyjamas with upper cloth. For women the preferred dress code is saree or half-saree with blouse or chudidhar with pyjama and upper cloth.
Thiruvannamalai is normally a hot place. October, November, December are rainy seasons. I don’t think it rains heavily in Thiruvannamalai. December, January and February are nice, reasonably cool times. Not so cool needing sweaters! But if you intend to go on Girivalam early morning in these months, some extra protection may be needed. Once the sun comes out bright, it gets hot.
I noramally prefered starting the girivalam early morning by 4 AM , and ending by 10 AM. Girivalam should mean walking only. Taking a round in two-wheeler, auto, or taxi is of no use. If you are staying somewhere in the route of Girivalam, you can start from there and end there. (I normally stayed at Ramanasramam and started and ended my pradakshina at it, after visiting the Temple which is in the route). Many people begin the walking from Arunachala temple and end it there.
(picture courtesy: Temples In India Info )
There is yet another temple known as the Adi Annamalayar temple somewhere at half the travel route. It requires a little extra walk from the girivalam path to reach the temple and comeback to track. There are several small lingas to worship en route.
Almost half of the girivalam route actually constitutes a couple of busy main roads of Thiruvannamalai. The other side is more peaceful, scarcely crowded, with much less traffic. It is more scenic, greener, rural and serene. It is also a tarred road only.
You can carry drinking water with you and some fruits and snacks if you prefer. You will find lots of alms seekers en route and, if you prefer to donate some money to them and also to the small-temple priests, please carry loose cash in small denominations.
The ideal way to undertake girivalam is to go alone, chanting your mantra and filling your mind with devotion. Ramana Maharshi recommends slow walking. He says girivalam is walking-meditation. Of course the Arunachala hill is always there in your vicinity as you walk around, and the hill is verily the physical manifestation of Lord Shiva.
If you are going with a company, it is better to avoid unnecessary chitchatting and concentrate on chanting your mantra.
Many people say that doing girivalam on the full moon night is highly rewarding. But it will be an extremely crowded affair, with lots of noise and commercial distractions. I personally prefer to avoid it, since the girivalam is meant for personal spiritual experience, and not to be treated as a picnic or fair.
All the best to you for a peaceful and spiritually enriching pilgrimage.
[Foreword: In this part 1 of Amma’s biography, we have covered her life and activities up to her age of 34. In part-2, age 35 to 60, and in Part-3, age 61 onwards are covered. Links to Part-2 and Part-3 are given at the bottom of this article].
== Oil painting == Lord Krishna appears before Amma and merges in her. Amma realizes her oneness with Krishna.
== Oil painting == Amma reveals her Krishna Bhava to people gathered to listen to Srimad Bhagavatam.
== Oil painting == Sudhamani ordered out of the house; Animals and birds give her company in the open.
. . . . . .
Smiling, She became a Divine Effulgence
And merged in me. My mind blossomed,
Bathed in the many-hued light of divinity
And the events of millions of years gone by
Rose up within me. Thenceforth,
Seeing nothing as separate from my own Self
And merging in the Divine mother
I renounced all sense of enjoyment
Mother told me to ask people
To fulfill their human birth.
Therefore I proclaim to the whole world
The sublime truth that She uttered
‘oh man, merge in your Self!”
. . . . . . . . .
Sudhamani resolves to dedicate her life totally to mitigate the suffering of the people and serve one and all as embodiments of God.
Amma with Prabhakara Siddha Yogi
Swami Turiyamritananda Puri (Br. Unnikrishnan) was the earliest permanent resident of the ashram who came in 1976.
> Click this picture to see the video clipping showing Amma licking the wounds in Dattan’s body and face
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The readers coming to this answer perhaps know already about Amma, Mata Amritanandamayi Devi, a living Sadguru among us, who has devotees, followers and admirers in millions across the globe.
Her thousands of earnest devotees and spiritual seekers know her as an Avatar – a divine incarnation of mother Parashakti; She is a Brahma gnyani; a true yogi; a jivan mukta. For many western devotees, she is a living proof that Jesus Christ did exist. She is like a large ship that can take numerous earnest devotees who have unconditionally surrendered to her across the sea of samsara.
There are thousands of devotees across the globe who have taken Mantra Diksha from her and chant their mantras regularly and engage in earnest spiritual practices.
Which Mantra does Amma give as Diksha?
Amma accepts earnest devotees from any walk of life, from any sect of Hinduism (be Vaishnavas, Shaivas, Shaktas or whatever), having whatever Ishta Devatas (favourite God forms) they love. To suit their taste and leaning, Amma gives mantras of their respective ishtas (Like Shiva Mantra, Vishnu mantra, Rama mantra, Krishna mantra, Gayathri Mantra, Devi Mantra and so on). In fact, Amma gives diksha to Christians, Buddhists etc. too, with mantras to suit their respective faiths and tastes.
There are plenty of Amma devotees for whom Amma herself is their Ishta. For them, Amma gives mantra originating from her own name too. In other words, Amma encourages and guides people to progress spiritually through their respective faiths, and there is nothing like a cult-feeling associated with her Mantra diksha.
In Mata Amritanandamayi Math, no one other than Amma is authorized to give Manta diksha.
When and where do you get diksha from Amma?
Amma’s ashram headquarters is in Amritapuri, Kerala, India. Before Corona pandemic, Amma used to be travelling across India and the worldduring major part of every year over the last 3 decades. However since 2020 (till the date in which this post is originally written) Amma has been staying in Amritapuri Ashram only.
Wherever Amma’s darshan programs get conducted (be it in Amritapuri or whatever place Amma visits), people, while receiving Amma’s darshan (which is her loving hug) can request Amma for Mantra Diksha. Amma instantly knows the past, present and future of a devotee the moment she hugs him, and depending on the person’s ripeness for receiving the mantra, she may accept the request. Please note that she may not respond with yes to some people; she may tell some people to come back to her in future with the request.
The truth is that, nowadays, out of her extreme compassion, Amma normally agrees to give Mantra diksha to a vast majority of people who make the request, unmindful of their spiritual limitations or shortcomings.
Once Amma’s nod is obtained, the person will be taken to a designated Sanyasi of the Ashram who interacts with the person to get information about his Ishta Devata (Favorite deity) on whom he wants the mantra. Then he gives the respective Mantra Card (associated with that deity) along with an instruction card. He gives necessary guidelines further.
The person is to wait, till Amma finishes giving darshan to all the devotees who have taken darshan tokens that day.
Please note that this wait may be quite long. Thousands of devotees come to Amma to take her darshan and the darshan program may extend till midnight or even till early hours of the next morning.
Except for this waiting, the Diksha process is rather an extremely simple and quick affair with virtually no procedural strings attached. People waiting for taking Mantra diksha will be taken to Amma, after she completes giving darshan (i.e. hugs) to all those who had come to her on that day/ night. The sanyasi assisting in diksha will tell Amma on what Ishta Devata the person wanted the mantra (by looking at the Mantra Card). Amma will hug the person and utter the respective mantra in his ear. She will then shower flower petals on the person’s head.
The ceremony is over!
Any further clarifications or instructions, if any (more than what is given in the Instruction sheets) can be had from the sanyasi assisting in diksha.
Please note
Generally, there are no strict dos and don’ts specified. People are expected to chant the mantras as much as possible, whenever possible, wherever possible. Chanting with earnest devotion and sincerity will bring more dividends. Regularity and earmarking specific time for chanting and meditation are encouraged. As Amma gives lots of significance to Lalita Sahasranama chanting, Amma’s devotees are always encouraged to learn Lalita Sahasranama and do the parayana or archana regularly.
ஸ்ரீ ராமகிருஷ்ண பரமஹம்சர் ஒரு மகாத்மா மாத்திரமல்ல, அவர் ஒரு அவதார புருஷரும் கூட. தனது நெருங்கிய பக்தர்களுக்கு, தாம் ஒரு அவதாரம் என்பதை அவர் வெளிப்படுத்தியிருந்தார். இந்து மதத்தில், அவரைப் பெரிதும் போற்றுவதற்கான பல காரணிகள் உள்ளன, அவற்றில் சிலவற்றை இங்கே சுருக்கமாகக் காண்போம்:
“ஓம் நமோ பகவதே ஸ்ரீ ரமணாய“
இன்னும் சொல்லாமல் விட்ட சம்பவங்கள் பலவும் உண்டு.
மகாத்மாக்களின் வாழ்க்கை லீலைகளை நினைத்து நினைத்துப் பார்ப்பதே ஓர் ஆனந்தமான தியான அனுபவம் போலத்தான்.
“ஓம் நமோ பகவதே ஸ்ரீ ரமணாய“
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Sri Ramakrishna Paramahamsa’s teachings virtually cover the entire gamut of Hinduism and its various facets. It is very difficult to consolidate his core teachings to a few lines. Anyhow I will make a humble try:
We can go on with more, but let me stop with the above.
(Source: Sri Ramakrishnarin amutha mozhikaL – Tamil)
எப்போதெல்லாம் பூமியில் நல்லோர்கள் துன்பத்துக்கு உள்ளாகிறார்களோ, தீயோரின் கைகள் மேலோங்கித் தர்மம் நிலை குலைகிறதோ அப்போதெல்லாம் இறைவன் அவதரித்து வருகிறார் என்பது இந்து மதத்தின் முக்கியமான நம்பிக்கைகளில் ஒன்று.
அவதாரம் என்றாலே ‘இறங்கி வருதல்’ என்றுதான் பொருள். அவசியமான தக்க சமயம் வரும்போது இறைவன் அவதரித்து வருகிறார் என்கிற செய்தியை பகவான் கிருஷ்ணரும் பகவத் கீதையில் “யதா யதாஹி தர்மஸ்ய….” எனும் சுலோகத்தில் தெளிவாகக் கூறியுள்ளார்:
“அர்ஜுனா, எப்போதெல்லாம் தருமம் குன்றி அதர்மம் மேலெழுகிறதோ அப்போதெல்லாம் நான் அவதரிக்கிறேன்; சாதுக்களைக் காத்து, தீயோரை அழித்து தர்மத்தை நிலை நாட்ட யுகம் தோறும் நான் வந்துதிக்கிறேன்” (ப.கீ. 4-7,8)
இறைவன் மனித வடிவெடுக்காது வேறு வடிவில் அவதரித்து வந்த (மச்சாவதாரம், கூர்மாவதாரம், நரசிம்மாவதாரம் போன்ற) அவதாரக் கதைகளையும் நமது இதிகாச புராணங்கள் விவரித்துள்ளன.
இந்துமதத்தின் அடிப்படையில் கடவுள் ஒருவரே. அவரை உபநிடதங்கள் ‘பிரம்மம்’ என்கின்றன. அந்தப் பிரம்மம் பெயர்-உருவங்களுக்கு அப்பாற்பட்டது. எங்கும் பரந்தது; எல்லாவற்றிலும் உள்ளது; எல்லாவற்றையும் தன்னுள் அடக்கியது. பார்க்கப் போனால் இந்தப் பிரபஞ்சத்தில் உயிருள்ள, உயிரற்ற அனைத்துமே அந்தப் பிரம்மத்தின் வெவ்வேறு விதமான வெளிப்பாடே. அந்தப் பிரம்மம் அணுவைக்காட்டிலும் நுண்ணியது; அதே சமயம் பிரம்மாண்டத்திலும் பிரம்மாண்டமானது.
ஆக, பிரம்மத்தில் எல்லாமே அடங்கியதால், பல்வேறு பெயர்-உருவத்துடன் கூடிய (ஈசுவரன் எனப்படும்) வழிபாட்டு தெய்வங்களும் அந்தப் பிரம்மத்தின் வெளிப்பாடே.
படைப்புக் கடவுளான பிரம்மா, காக்கும் கடவுளான விஷ்ணு, அழிக்கும் கடவுளான சிவன் எனும் மூன்று பிரதான தெய்வங்கள் இந்துமதத்தில் நாம ரூபங்களோடு கற்பிக்கப் பட்டுள்ளனர்.
அதில் விஷ்ணுவையே அந்தப் பரப் பிரம்மமாகக் கொண்டாடி வழிபடுவோர்கள் வைஷ்ணவர் எனப்படுகின்றனர். படைக்கும் கடவுளான பிரம்மாவே (படைப்புத் தொழிலை செய்வதற்காக) அந்த விஷ்ணுவின் நாபியிலிருந்து விஷ்ணுவால் தோற்றுவிக்கப் பட்டவர்தாம் என்பது வைஷ்ணவர்கள் கொள்கை.
சைவ சம்பிரதாயப்படியோ, சிவனே அந்த பரப் பிரம்மம். அவரே எல்லாம். அவரது அடியும் முடியும் கூட பிரம்மா விஷ்ணுவுக்கு எட்டமுடியாதவை என்று சைவ புராணங்கள் கூறும்.
அவ்வாறே சக்தியை பரப் பிரம்மமாகக் கொண்டாடும் சாக்தர்கள், பிரம்மா, விஷ்ணு, சிவனைப் படைத்ததே அந்த சக்திதான் என்பார்கள்.
நம்பிக்கைகள் எப்படி இருந்தாலும், பிரம்மா, விஷ்ணு, சிவன் எனும் பிரதானக் கடவுளர்கள்; அவதாரங்கள் அல்ல.
(ஆயினும் ஒரு சில சாத்திரங்களில் இம்மூன்று தெய்வங்களையும் ‘குணாவதாரங்கள்’ என்று குறிப்பிடுவதும் உண்டு. சத்வம், ரஜஸ், தமஸ் எனப்படும் பிரகிருதியின் முக்குணங்களில் பிரம்மா சத்வகுண அவதாரமாகவும், விஷ்ணு ரஜோ குண அவதாரமாகவும், சிவன் தமோகுண அவதாரமாகவும் உருவகப் படுத்துவர்).
ஆயினும் இவர்கள் மானிடப் பிறவிகள் அல்லர்; பிறப்பு இறப்பு அற்ற நித்திய தெய்வங்களாகவே கூறப்படுகின்றனர். புராணங்களில் இவர்களின் செயல்பாடுகளைப் பற்றி கூறப்படும் கதைகள், ஈசுவர லீலை என்பதாக அறியப்படும்.
விஷ்ணுவின் அவதாரங்கள்
நமது புராணங்களின் படி (விஷ்ணு புராணம், பாகவத புராணம் போன்றவற்றில்) பகவான் விஷ்ணுவே பற்பல அவதாரங்கள் எடுத்து உலகியரை இரட்சிக்க வருகிறார் என்று கூறுகின்றன. அவற்றில் பத்து அவதாரங்கள் சிறப்பாகக் குறிப்பிடப் படுகின்றன. அவை:
(1) மத்ஸ்யாவதாரம் (2) கூர்மாவதாரம் (3) வராகாவதாரம் (4) வாமனாவதாரம் (5) நரசிம்மாவதாரம் (6) பரசுராமாவதாரம் (7) ராமாவதாரம் (8) கிருஷ்ணாவதாரம் (9) பலராமாவதாரம் (10) கல்கியாவதாரம்.
பலராமருக்குப் பதில் புத்தரை அவதாரமாகச் சொல்வதும் உண்டு. கல்கி அவதாரம் இனிமேல்தான் கலியுகத்தில் நிகழவிருக்கிறது என்பது நம்பிக்கை.
அவதாரங்கள் பத்துக்குள் அடங்குவதல்ல
ஆயினும், இந்துமதப் புராணங்களிலேயே தலையாயதாகவும், பக்தி, ஞானம் இரண்டையும் சிறப்பாக விளக்கும் புராண நூலாகவும் கூறப்படும் ஸ்ரீமத் பாகவத புராணத்தில் மேற்கண்ட 10 அவதாரங்களுக்கும் உபரியாய் மேலும் 17 அவதாரங்கள் குறிப்பிடப் பட்டுள்ளனர். இவர்களது சரித்திரங்களும் பாகவதத்தில் தரப்பட்டுள்ளன. (ஆக 27 அவதாரங்கள்). அந்த அவதார புருஷர்கள்:
(11) சனகர் (12) சனந்தர் (13) சனாதனர் (14) சனத்குமாரர் (15) நாரதர் (16) நரர் (17) நாராயணர் (18) கபிலர் (19) தத்தாத்ரேயர் (20) யாக்ஞர் (21) ரிஷபர் (22) பிருது (23) மோஹினி (24) கருடன் (25) தன்வந்திரி (26) வியாசர் (27) புத்தர்.
அவதாரத்தில் தெய்வீக வெளிப்பாட்டின் அளவு – பூர்ணம், அம்சம், கலை
நமது சில சாத்திரங்களில் படைப்பிலுள்ளவற்றில் வெளிப்படும் இறை சக்தி பற்றிக் குறிப்பிடும்போது ‘கலை’ எனும் ஓர் அளவைக் கூறுவதுண்டு. அதன்படி, செடி கொடிகளுக்கு 2 கலை, மிருகங்களுக்கு 2 – 3 கலை, சாமானிய மனிதர்களுக்கு 5- 6 கலை, ரிஷிகளுக்கும் மகாத்மாக்களுக்கும் 7 – 8 கலை என்றெல்லாம் சொல்வார்கள். ராம அவதாரம் 12 கலை; கிருஷ்ணாவதாரம் 16 கலை என்பார்கள். 16 கலை அளவுள்ள கிருஷ்ணாவதாரம் பூர்ணாவதாரம் (முழுமையான அவதாரம்) எனக் குறிப்பிடப்படுகிறது.
இவை தவிர, இறைவனின் ஒரு அம்சம் மாத்திரம் வெளிப்படும் அவதாரங்கள் அம்சாவதாரங்கள் எனப்படுகின்றனர். அதன்படி, மச்ச, கூர்ம, வராக, பலராம அவதாரங்களை அம்சாவதாரங்கள் என்பார்கள். ராமாயணத்தில் வரும் லக்ஷ்மண, பரத சத்ருக்கினர்களும் விஷ்ணுவின் அம்சமாகப் பிறந்தவர்களே.
மேலும் சக்தி ஆவேச அவதாரங்கள் என்றும் ஒரு வகை சொல்லப்படுகிறது. இறைவனின் உக்கிரமான சக்தி இந்த அவதாரங்கள் மூலம் வெளிப்பட்டு பெருமளவில் அழிக்கும் சக்தி வேலை செய்யும். பரசுராமர் அவதாரம் சக்தியாவேச அவதாரமாகக் குறிப்பிடப் பெறுகிறது. நரசிம்மாவதாரமும் அவ்வாறே.
அவதாரங்கள் எண்ணிக்கைக்குட்பட்டவை அல்ல
அவதாரங்கள் எண்ணிலடங்கா என்றும் ஸ்ரீமத் பாகவதம் குறிப்பிடுவதாக ஸ்ரீ ராமகிருஷ்ண பரமஹம்சர் கூறுவதுண்டு. அது மெய்யாகவே இருக்க வாய்ப்பிருக்கிறது. காரணம் இறையவதாரங்களைப் பற்றி (10 அவதாரங்கள், 27 அவதாரங்கள் என்றெல்லாம்) குறிப்பிடும் புராணங்கள், ஆயிரக்கணக்கான ஆண்டுகளுக்கு முன்னர் எழுதப் பட்டவை. எப்போதெல்லாம் தர்மம் தாழ்ந்து அதர்மம் மேலோங்குகிறதோ அப்போதெல்லாம் அவதாரம் நிகழ்கிறது என்கிற கூற்றின்படி பார்த்தால், புராண காலத்துக்குப் பிற்பாடும் அவதாரங்கள் நிகழ்ந்து கொண்டே தான் இருந்தாகவேண்டும் என்பது தெளிவாகிறது.
அவதார புருஷர்கள்
அப்படிப் பிற்காலத்தில் வந்த சில மகாத்மாக்கள் பக்தர்களால் அவதார புருஷர்களாகக் கொண்டாடப் பெறுகின்றனர். மெய்யான ஆன்மீக நாட்டம் உள்ள சாதகர்கள், நமது பண்டைய சாத்திர நூல்களுக்கும், புராணங்களுக்கும் கொடுக்கப்படும் அதே முக்கியத்துவத்தை இவர்களது போதனைகளுக்கும் வாழ்க்கை சரிதங்களுக்கும் அளிக்கிறார்கள்.
அவர்களில் சிலர்:
இவர்களில் பலரும் தம் தாய் மொழியிலேயே, சாமானியருக்கும் புரியும் வகையில் மிகவும் எளிமையாகத் தமது உபதேசங்களை நல்குவர். ஆயினும் இவர்களது வாக்குகள் நமது பண்டைய சாத்திரங்களின் சாரமேயன்றி வேறில்லை என்பதை சான்றோர் அறிவர்.
இவர்களது எளிய மொழிகள் சிக்கலான சாத்திரங்களுக்கும் தெள்ளிய விளக்கங்களாக அமையும். அது மட்டுமல்லாது, கால தேச மாற்றங்களுக்கு ஏற்ப சனாதன மதத்தில் சில மாற்றங்களையும் புதிய பாதைகளையும் உருவாக்கித் தம் பக்தர்களை வழிநடத்துவர் இந்த அவதார புருஷர்கள்.
இவர்களில் சிலர் சுயம்புக்கள். அதாவது பிறவியிலிருந்தே ஞானம் பெற்றவர்கள். ஆயினும் அவதார புருஷர்கள் சிலர் தம் இளம் சாதனா காலத்தில் ஒரு குறிப்பிட்ட தெய்வ ரூபத்தை பக்தி செய்தவர்களாகவும், ஒரு குறிப்பிட்ட ஆன்மீகப் பாதையைக் மேற்கொண்டவர்களாகவும் இருந்து தம் இறை நிலையை எத்தியதாகவும் நாம் அவர்கள் சரிதத்தில் காண்போம்.
ஆனால் நிறை நிலை பெற்ற அவர்கள் பெரும்பாலும் மதங்கள், உட்பிரிவுகள், சாதி, இன வட்டங்களின் எல்லைகளைக் கடந்து நின்று, அனைத்து வகை மக்களையும் ஈர்க்கும் ஓர் தெய்வீக அன்பின் வடிவங்களாகவே இருப்பார்கள். பல்வேறு ருசிகள், வாசனைகள், வேறுபாடுகளைச் சுமந்து கொண்டு தம்மிடம் வரும் அன்பர்களுக்கு அவரவர்களுக்கு ஏற்ற ஆன்மீக மார்க்கத்தைக் காட்டியருளுபவர்களாக விளங்குவார்கள். அறிவியலுக்கோ, பகுத்தறிவுக்கோ எட்டாத எத்தனையோ அற்புதங்களை இவர்கள் தம் பக்தர்களின் வாழ்க்கையில் நிகழ்த்திக் காட்டி தம்மைச் சரணடைந்தவர்களின் சிரத்தை, பக்தி, விசுவாசத்தைத் திடப்படுத்தி ஆன்மீக வாழ்வில் முன்னேற ஒளி நல்குவார்கள்.
பக்தர்கள்கள், ஆன்மீகத் தேடல் மிக்க சாதகர்களைத் தவிர, கள்ளம் கபடமற்ற உள்ளம் கொண்ட சாமானிய மக்களும் கூட அவதார புருஷர்களால் பெரிதும் ஈர்க்கப் பட்டு வந்து அவர்களைச் சரணடைந்து, அவர்களின் அருளால் தம் உலகியல் வாழ்வில் வரும் கஷ்டங்கள், நோய்கள், பிரச்சனைகள், துக்கங்களுக்கு எளிதில் தீர்வுகாண்பார்கள். தாம் பெற்ற அத்தகைய அற்புதமான நிவாரணங்கள் மூலம் அவர்களது இறை நம்பிக்கை திடமாகி, அவர்களும் காலப் போக்கில் ஆன்மீகப் பாதையில் அடியெடுத்து வைக்கும் பக்குவம் பெறுவார்கள்.
கவனிக்க — ஞான மார்க்கத்தில் அவதாரம் எனும் பேச்சுக்கு இடமில்லை
நமது இந்து மதத்தின் அத்வைதக் கோட்பாட்டை வலியுறுத்தும் ஞான மார்க்கத்தில் ஜீவாத்மாவும் பரமாத்மாவும் வேறு வேறு அல்ல. படைப்பில் உள்ள அனைத்துமே இறைவனே; மாயையினாலும் அகங்காரத்தாலும் பீடிக்கப்பட்டு ஜீவன் தன்னை இறைவனிடமிருந்து வேறாய் எண்ணும் அஞ்ஞானத்தினால் பேதத்தைக் காண்கிறான். அந்த அஞ்ஞானம் போனால், தான் இறைவனேயன்றி வேறில்லை என்பதை ஜீவன் உணர்வான். ஆக, நாம் எல்லாருமே அடிப்படையில் இறை சொரூபமே. ஆகவே எவரோ ஓரிருவர்தான் அவதார புருஷர்களாய் வருகிறார்கள் என்கிற கோட்பாடு ஞான மார்க்கத்தில் இல்லை! நாம் எல்லாருமே அவதாரங்கள் தான்!
ஆனால் (நான் வேறு இறைவன் வேறு) எனும் துவைத உணர்வை ஏற்கும் பக்தி மார்க்கத்தில் அவதாரம் ஓர் முக்கியமான விஷயமாகிறது. பக்தர்கள் இறைவனுடன் கூடி வாழ்ந்து அவன் லீலைகளைக் கண்டு ஆனுபவித்து ஆனந்திக்கும் பேறைத் தரவே இறைவன் அவதரித்து வருகிறான்.
அவதார புருஷர்களை எல்லோராலும் அடையாளம் காணமுடியாது
இறைவனின் மாயா விளையாட்டில் இதுவும் ஓர் முக்கியமான நிதர்சனமே!
இன்று நாம் இறையவதாரங்களான ராமரையும் கிருஷ்ணரையும் தெய்வமாகக் கொண்டாடினாலும், அவர்கள் அவதரித்த காலத்தில் அவர்களை எதிர்த்தவர்களும், விமரிசித்தவர்களும் அவதூறு பேசியவர்களும் இருக்கத்தான் செய்தார்கள்!
பொதுவாகவே மிகப் பரவலாய் பலருக்கும் இறைவனை ஏதோ தொலை தூரத்தில் ஆகாயத்தில் ஒரு வைகுண்டத்திலோ, சுவர்க்கத்திலோ, பர மண்டலத்திலோ, கைலாயத்திலோ இருப்பதாக ஒப்புக்கொள்வது தான் எளிதாக இருக்கிறது. அடுத்தபடியாக, இறைவனின் வெவ்வேறு ரூபங்களையும், ஆயிரக்கணக்கான ஆண்டுகளுக்கு முன் மனித வடிவில் வாழ்ந்த அவதாரங்களான ராமரையும், கிருஷ்ணரையும் கோவில்களில் விக்கிரக வடிவில் கும்பிட்டு வணங்கிப் போவதே ஏற்புடையதாக இருக்கிறது. நிகழ் காலத்தில், நம்முள் ஒருவராக ரத்தமும் சதையும் கொண்ட மனித வடிவில் ஒருவரை இறைவனாகக் காண்பது ஒப்ப முடியாமல் இருக்கிறது!
வரையறைக்கு உட்பட்ட தன் சிற்றறிவை வைத்துக்கொண்டு, மகாத்மாக்களை எடை போட்டு அவர்களை இழித்துப் பேசுவதும், அவதூறுகளைக் கூறுவதும், ஏமாற்றுப் பேர்வழிகள், பாமர மக்களிடம் மூட நம்பிக்கையை வளர்த்து முட்டாளாக்குபவர்கள், பகுத்தறிவுக்கு ஒவ்வாதவர்கள், போலிச்சாமியார்கள் என்றெல்லாம் சொல்லியும் எள்ளி நகையாடுபவர்கள் பலர் உண்டு.
சமீப காலத்தில் வாழ்ந்து செத்துப் போன மகாத்மாக்களைக் கூட ஒரு வேளை ஒப்புக்கொண்டாலும் கூட, உயிரோடு வாழும் அவதார புருஷர்களை இவர்கள் ஒப்புக்கொள்ளவே மாட்டார்கள்!
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This website has been conceived and being developed by C.V.Rajan. He is a retired Engineer and an ex-design consultant, now living with his wife in Ashram at Amritapuri, Kerala, spending his retired life in quest of spirituality under the holy feet of Amma, Satguru Mata Amritanandamayi.
He is an avid reader and a writer. Writing as a hobby started in him at the age of 20. As his interest turned to spirituality in his late thirties, he became an avid reader on the lives and teachings of great Mahatmas like Sri Ramakrishna Paramahamsa, Bhagwan Ramana Maharshi and his satguru Mata Amritanandamayi (Amma).
In his early fifties, he wrote at various blog sites on variety of subjects like Hinduism, spirituality, life & living, healthy living, Indian culture and so on. Now through this website (Hinduism Way Of Life), C.V.Rajan is consolidating and sharing all his writings on Hinduism under a single umbrella.