Let me share a funny story that Amma (Mata Amritanandamayi) narrates:
A person was suffering from one hardship after another in life and got very much dejected. He went to consult an astrologer to know what he holds for the future.
The astrologer, after going through the horoscope said “ Your planetary positions are too unfavorable.You will have to go through sufferings till your age of 50”.
The man felt somewhat relieved. He asked eagerly, “It means I will lead a smooth and happy life after that, right?”
The astrologet said, “No. You will get used to facing troubles and managing them afterward!”.
Amma used to say that ‘parasthithi‘ (external circumstances) cannot be changed easily, but with effort, it is possible to change our ‘manasthithi‘ (state of mind). When, by spiritual effort, we manage to acquire mental strength and eaquanimity, we will be able to face joys and sorrows with lots of balance. We will not get over joyed in moments of fortune, nor get too disturbed and depressed against adversities.
When mindset changes, by divine grace, there is every chance that trials and tribulations too diminish in life.